[12:35] bruckner (bruckner.dreddmor): SR Tori Petlyakov please join us on the deck
[12:35] bruckner (bruckner.dreddmor): welcome to the deck
[12:35] Tori Petlyakov: SEMPER PARATUS
[12:35] bruckner (bruckner.dreddmor): SEMPER PARATUS
[12:13:49] Fawn Starflare: When I first though of this pair of discussions a few weeks back, the inspiration was the many many different expectations we have of each other. [12:14:37] Fawn Starflare: While I would be hard pressed to come up with definitions for top and bottom, or Domme and sub, those who have hung around the lifestyle long enough sense there is a difference. [12:15:45] Fawn Starflare: Not all so called dom/me roles are about dominance. At least not in some traditional sense as an owner of slaves in ancient Rome or even in some parts of the modern Arab world or the antebellum American South. [12:16:56] Fawn Starflare: And the same things goes for those we generically call subs. But some like to be kidnapped, others to be raped, and others pain. And none of those are necessarily submissive. [12:17:46] Fawn Starflare: And then there are the truly submissive roles, servants, maids, sex toy, dolls, and all the rest. And brats, and those that love to be subdued before submitting. [12:18:22] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles [12:18:36] Fawn Starflare: So let's go around the room. Let's see what different dommes expect from subs, three or four attributes, and what subs expect of themselves, what they want to give and what they want in return.
[12:11] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): i offered to teach brit the meanings behind the kneels Miss Carley
[12:11] Carley Noonan pulls Britt close and kisses Britt
[12:11] Carley Noonan: Oh mouse thank you
[12:11] Carley Noonan: we are trying to get her edumacated
[12:12] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): may i take the center for a moment please
[12:12] ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): fine by me mousey-love
[12:12] Mermaid Stormcrow: please do, mouse.
[12:13] Carley Noonan: of course mouse
[12:13] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): this little workshop is called "On your knees"
[12:13] ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): oo
[15:10] Tenshi Love: Yesterday I spoke a bit about power exchange. Today, I'll speak about the topic that interests me the most
[15:10] Tenshi Love: Namely: what makes a D/s relationship work?
[15:11] Feralangel Tolsen raises her hand
[15:12] Tenshi Love: I'll open the floor for initial ideas, then I'll share what I think.
[15:13] Feralangel Tolsen: Ok. Well.. I think the ingredients are different for everyone. I think in general compatibility is hugs. That means compatibility of kinks and also style. What I mean by smiles is for instance, some subs need more affection. Like me.
[15:13] Akala Tanara: Dedication, trust and communication I would say make it work.
[15:14] Feralangel Tolsen: honest communication even when it is not easy to say or discuss.. especially then
[15:14] Kite Homewood: ...dedication, too.
[15:15] Carley Noonan: patience
[15:15] Carley Noonan: love
[15:15] Tenshi Love: You all have begun to scratch the surface here. This topic is plenty more profound than it seems.
[15:15] Carley Noonan: and respect
[15:15] ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ: i go with respect too
[15:16] Feralangel Tolsen: ya. I would say respect for each party as a human being that is not predicated on their role.
[18:18] Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): there is transfer of power from the top to the bottom. Such a transfer can happen in three ways.
[18:19] Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): Power over is the first type of power transfer: The will of the dominant is imposed on the submissive.
[18:20] Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): It's classic, but i's not good on the long run, because there is no space for the submissive to express herself.
[18:21] Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): Power under is the second type of power exchange: everything is negotiated from the submissive
Miss Fawn discussion - traits of a domme
[13:00] Fawn Starflare: What I'd like to do is have each of you think about dommes and what a Domme is to you. Then pick the three most important attributes, skills, attitudes, presentations, etc. Before we start to respond to each other I would like you all to to tell us your three things. After that we can discuss similarities and differences in the lists. I wonder if Dommes, subs, and switches all define a Domme the same way.
[13:00] Caprice (becky.koolhoven) nods at Miss Fawn
[13:01] Fawn Starflare: It's not about how you met or how long a trial period.
[13:01] Fawn Starflare: It's about both domme and sub being willing to truly know the other and to commit to finding a middle road.
[13:02] Fawn Starflare: Even in TPE, there is give and take.
[13:02] Fawn Starflare: So lets try this go around the room and each woman say what Domme means to her.
TPE - Collaring
[12:16] Mermaid Stormcrow: so let's start the discussion
[12:16] Mermaid Stormcrow: This is Fawn's topic
[12:16] Mermaid Stormcrow: For the next two weeks we will be discussing dominant and submissive roles.. The goal is to explore our expectations of ourselves and our partners as we fulfill these roles. There is no one comprehensive set of skills and behaviors that define either role. As people describe their desires and needs we will see that roles are fluid and evolve to satisfy both partners. Even for TPE the Domme/sub relationship is much more a collaboration that it might seem.
[12:17] Mermaid Stormcrow: This week is focusing on Dommes. Next week will be subs.
[12:17] Mermaid Stormcrow: To the dommes in the room, when you read this topic, what comes to mind?
[12:19] Carla (cyberspy): Which part, the TPE?
[12:19] Mermaid Stormcrow: When I read this topic, I think of how much I've learned since starting as a domme; not that long ago.
[12:20] Mermaid Stormcrow: What does TPE mean Carla?
[17:02] Mermaid Stormcrow: ok, this is it.
[17:03] Mermaid Stormcrow shakes out my dress
[17:03] Lea Pet (leatherme): you look absolutely heavenly Mer
[17:03] Mermaid Stormcrow blushes and laughs at the comments
[17:04] Mermaid Stormcrow stands under the arch and looks at her friends and family
Summary - topics: 1) the value of the Cellar 2) the stability of sims for renting 3) Roles and powers 4) Lag [11:02] San Mauvaise: I do not have a particular agenda for today, but would firstly like to hear other's opinions of what they think about the state of the Cellar and maybe its future [11:03] San Mauvaise: anyone want to start?
[12:06:28] Fawn Starflare: Thank you all for showing your support of our wonderful group and club by coming down. [12:07:36] Fawn Starflare: By now you know that after some opening remarks I sit back and just keep the conversation going. Today's topic provides lots for each of you to contribute. [12:09:12] Fawn Starflare: My first notion of this talk came about a week ago. A woman came in in silks, black lace T&T belt, and hair gelled to look like there was a stiff breeze. [12:09:42] Mermaid Stormcrow quietly walks into the discussion and sits down [12:09:59] Fawn Starflare: She was a vision of loveliness and her manners matched, and just by looking at her you knew her Mistress loved her very much to guide or impose that presentation. [12:12:13] Fawn Starflare: The thing is as we look around we have all dressed or been dressed not only to be pleasing to the eye but for other purposes as well. [12:12:48] Brianne Erin: to please ones self or others [12:13:13] Mermaid Stormcrow nods in agreement [12:13:14] Fawn Starflare: An curious thing about this as that many of the decisions that go into creating this image or not made consciously.
[11:46:50] Linda Doune: Mistress.... [11:46:52] Linda Doune: and faery [11:47:01] Fawn Starflare: It's a way of making your world feel ordered, safe, and secure. [11:47:14] Linda Doune: it took a while to "come out" as my true spirit [11:47:28] Linda Doune: coming out... to bdsm places... as a pure fairy [11:47:32] Linda Doune: is.... [11:47:33] Linda Doune: well [11:47:46] Linda Doune: this is the first time I've come here like this [11:47:53] Linda Doune: but I can not hide my true desire [11:48:04] Fawn Starflare: Congratulations, linda. [11:48:12] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles [11:48:30] Linda Doune: in the faery world..... bdsm is so anathemic to the lifestyle.. it is totally forbidden [11:48:38] Linda Doune: it is seen as not loving [11:48:51] Linda Doune: but it is me [11:48:59] Linda Doune: as well as seeing a girl on her knees.. is me [11:49:43] Linda Doune: I am still a member here [11:49:54] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) remembers reading "Bondage Fairies" comic and giggles [11:50:22] Fawn Starflare: If you are comfortable with it, lets make this part of the description. Your feelings are so much like my own that the dissonant couplet is different. [11:50:27] Linda Doune: at least when I am over there [11:50:40] Linda Doune: I need to hide my desire to take my wife and make her kneel [11:50:51] Linda Doune: but I do that when I am not physically .. ehehe.. here [11:51:38] Linda Doune: I was dominant outwardly for ages [11:51:47] Linda Doune: years even... you have known me for years, Fawn [11:52:02] Linda Doune: inside me was.. this... [11:52:05] Linda Doune: and it won out [11:52:22] Fawn Starflare: I think it's great. [11:53:05] Fawn Starflare: Personally I have no issue with dominant faeries, however I understand the conflict within your community. [11:53:21] Linda Doune: my community... dissolved on me [11:53:32] Fawn Starflare: It's nice to see you -- OUT -- happy and comfortable with yourself. [11:53:41] Linda Doune: that gave me the opportunity to explore and expound ... with my gentler inside [11:53:55] Linda Doune: clubs I have been with for years... dissolved.. and shocked me [11:55:25] Linda Doune: Bdsm has been part of my life here since I came on 5 yrs ago [11:55:37] Linda Doune: so... you can say this is a huge shift ㋡ ... ... [12:13:22] Fawn Starflare: ok ladies. its time to get this discussion going. [12:17:21] Fawn Starflare: so the topic of discussion today is cognitive dissonance.
[12:15:51] Fawn Starflare: I've been thinking a lot about gags and sensory deprivation, removal of identity and a bunch or related issues that come along with dressing a sub's head. [12:16:17] Fawn Starflare: Blind folds, hoods, harnesses, gags, blinkers, and the like. [12:17:41] Fawn Starflare: For me this all starts with an oral fixation. As a sub it was my desire to always have something in my mouth. A gag of any king, part of my Mistress, part of someone designated by my Mistress.
And i was very excited, so Miss San let me post some pictures.
If any of you have great big events like prodigal daughters or weddings, please send me your pictures to post and any pertinent poop :)
[12:09] Fawn Starflare takes a sip of water from the table beside her, then taps a spoon on it gently to get people's attention [12:10] Fawn Starflare: Tuesday night I finally gave myself the joy of watching “The Vagina Monologues,” Written and performed by Eve Ensler. In preparation for our discussion I looked her up in the Wikipedia. She's an interesting woman and hope at least some of you will look her up after our discussion. If you have about 90 minutes and want an amazing experience, watch “The Vagina Monologues.” Amazon has recently acquired distribution rights to a lot of HBO shows, many of them, including the “Monologues,” of is available “free” to Amazon Prime members, all others pay cash.
[2014/06/22 11:10] Ash (Ash Yheng): So basically, although this discussion started off in my mind purely about Sensual Domming as a method ...
[2014/06/22 11:10] Ash (Ash Yheng): ... it quickly turned into one that was about how connected subs are between RL and SL.
[2014/06/22 11:10] Ash (Ash Yheng): And this is a tricky area. Some people get uncomfortable about that subject, because they think of it as being "too real", or get worried about people stalking them ...
[2014/06/22 11:11] Molly Domenici: Part of SL is having that separation from RL
[2014/06/22 11:11] Ash (Ash Yheng): ... but it doesn't have to be that way. To me there is always going to be -some- sort of carry over into the RL of the sub if we're talking about a real D/s experience, at least in terms of mood.
[2014/06/22 11:11] Ash (Ash Yheng) nods at molly.
[2014/06/22 11:11] Ash (Ash Yheng): Well, people experience it all very differently.
[12:10:04] Fawn Starflare: It was Carla who indirectly suggested this topic about 8 days ago.
[12:10:23] Carla (cyberspy): haha, that is an understatement.
[12:11:04] Fawn Starflare: Carla what complaining about the ways and timings of people wanting to use her girls and she said, "Have you discussed that yet."
[12:11:22] Fawn Starflare: So here we are
[12:11:32] Sugar Baby (bridgette.huntress): oh ok
[12:12:53] Fawn Starflare: Also Carla and had a minor upset of her girl adonna participating in the forniphilia demonstration. So issues of etiquette were definitely in the air.
[12:13:20] Fawn Starflare: And Lexi's blog post that week also addresses similar ISSUES.
[12:14:56] Fawn Starflare: As I see it there are very few universal rules of etiquette in the BDSM world. A lot of behaviors that might be unacceptable in everyday life are often acceptable here.
[12:15:37] Fawn Starflare: Even so, dominants are very possessive of their subs, even when the sub is allowed to roam about to play.
[11:05] Ash (ash.yheng): Looking around the room I suspect that most of you are at least somewhat versed in the subject ... [11:06] Toni Westland: sorry I did not pick up on the subject. [11:06] Ash (ash.yheng): ... but I'd like to go over some basics, as well as some SL-specific comments on the subject of "subspace and subdrop" for the benefit of people that are new to the scene, or used to thinking in RL context. [11:07] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): oh, an interesting subject Miss Ash [11:07] ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): truly [11:07] Mermaid Stormcrow nods and listens
[09:21:12] Fawn Starflare: Well I see a few Dolls here. Different Varieties. Melody, toy, born, kelly.
[09:21:35] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles
[09:21:36] Melody Cross (melody.runo) nods
[09:22:10] Fawn Starflare: Hello para.
[09:22:22] Mermaid Stormcrow: please come can join us for the discussion
[09:22:23] Para (mstrspara.moraga): Smiles and waves Hello all :)
[09:22:34] MissMarcy Yachvili (mismarcy) is online.
[09:23:01] RF Reverse Stiletto (r lower leg) whispers: A nice comfy heel is placed on Jessicca's shoes, capping the mean spike and rendering it harmless.
[09:23:14] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles
[09:23:35] Mermaid Stormcrow quietly waves to Miana and jessicca as the discussion starts.
[09:23:54] Fawn Starflare watches maina drag in a securely bound, gagged, and blinded girl.
[09:24:13] Fawn Starflare: Very nice, Miana, and the coloring of the buttocks is perfect.
[09:24:21] (no name) Mstrspara Moraga has turned Mstrspara's key.
[09:24:56] Fawn Starflare: One more Doll added to the collection.
[09:25:02] Miana Siabonne: Hiya Everyone :)
[09:25:27] Fawn Starflare: I think we can see one of the elements of being a doll is the paradoxical freedom that comes with restraint.
[12:12:18] Fawn Starflare: Oh Silver, we hold a number of discussions each week to keep that place warm and cozy. I lead a discussion , well as of this week, twice a week. [12:12:29] Fawn Starflare: And today as I said it Dommes and Dolls. [12:12:52] Fawn Starflare: It's hard to say exactly where and hows the doll fetish came to be. [12:13:36] Fawn Starflare: My perception of this is that it began with inflatable sex dolls available by mail order or at your local XXX book shop.
[10:58] [2014/06/08 10:01] Mermaid Stormcrow: A little reminder that there is a discussion at 11 SLT. Tessa won't be here, I'll do my best to come back and keep track of notes.
[11:03] Ash (ash.yheng): We should probably start in a couple of minutes. *smiles*
[11:03] Alana (devastacia.soulstar) nods
[11:03] Alana (devastacia.soulstar): Just giving people time to arrive
[11:08] Alana (devastacia.soulstar): Okay, we're gonna go ahead and get started
[11:09] Ash (ash.yheng): yay .*smiles and awaits for alana*
[11:09] Alana (devastacia.soulstar): I want to preface this discussion by stating that this is a safe place...everyone's kinks, fetishes, etc are to be respected. If you can't do so in a kind manner, you will be asked to leave.
[11:10] Alana (devastacia.soulstar): I want everyone here to feel like they can speak about anything they wish without fear of negative judgment.
[11:10] Mermaid Stormcrow listens and nods
[11:10] Rae (raelara.ishtari) nods, shifting enough so that she can listen and observe attentively.
[11:11] Ash (ash.yheng): I think we're all in agreement with that, darling. :)
[11:11] Alana (devastacia.soulstar): Today we're going to be talking about edge/taboo kinks, in more or less three parts...how you become comfortable participating in them, how you share them with others, and how you deal with the negative reactions of those who don't understand.
[12:10] Fawn Starflare: As you've all seen, today's discussion comes with three lovely demonstrations.
[12:10] Fawn Starflare: Interestingly enough, all three seem to have been directly inspired by Jeff Gord.
[12:11] Fawn Starflare: The notion of using women as furniture has been around for a very long time.
Wednesday Discussion 12:00 Noon led by Miss Fawn
"What to do when you know you have done something wrong and have no idea why your Mistress is so angry with you and what you need to do."
[12:07] Fawn Starflare: Today's topic, well you have only to look at my toy to see what inspired it.
[12:07] Fawn Starflare: I am sure the lash marks will heal soon.
[12:07] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) caresses the welts
[12:07] Helena Sitri (plueschie): *giggles* if it gets more full here we need more pillows on the floor
[12:08] Fawn Starflare: It's no secret that though I only Domme now, I am and always have been a switch.
[12:08] Fawn Starflare: I have been on both sides of this dilemma.
[12:08] Fawn Starflare: I will illustrate the situation.
[12:08] Fawn Starflare: Yesterday when I logged in toy was online but AFK.
[12:09] Fawn Starflare: When she logged in, she was both blind and gagged, and that is something she had to have noticed.
[12:09] Fawn Starflare: Yes, toy?
[12:10] Fawn Starflare: I waited for her to return. She is a very good girl most of the time, and she greeted me with a foot kiss and her pledge of submission to me.
[12:10] Fawn Starflare: However I had not heard something I was expecting and that she would have said in other circumstance when bindings were added or removed :
[12:10] Fawn Starflare: "thank you"
[12:11] Fawn Starflare: So I asked, "what have you forgotten to say?"
[12:11] Fawn Starflare: Now if she had said 'thank you' or 'I don't know', things would have ended there.
Chats with Miss Fawn Wednesday, 14 May 2014, noon SLT
Augmented Reality, Totally Independent world, or something in between or other. What's your view of SL and how does it affect the way you do BDSM in SL? Conversely, what you want to do or get out of BDSM in SL probably affects your perception of SL. Regardless, we often do things in SL we couldn't do in RL due to issues of physical safety and other concerns. Though physical safety can be ignored, a bad scene or relationship can do emotional or spiritual harm in a variety of ways. How does one inoculate herself against harm before entering into a scene or relationship?
[12:09] Fawn Starflare: The topic today was suggested by an 8 year old block entry that tessa pointed out to me. [12:10] Fawn Starflare: And while those issues of what should SL have long since been settles, the title suggests something that I think about all the time with connection to the BDSM lifestyle in SL. [12:11] Mermaid Stormcrow waits for Miss Fawn to continue. [12:12] Fawn Starflare: Now I want to make a disclaimer before I jump right in. The there are at least two different issues which one could spend a lot of time. There are deep philosophical considerations. However they are tangential to what I have in mind and I will cut off discussion that will lead in to philosophical pondering. [12:12] Fawn Starflare: I was trying to think how to word that. [12:13] Fawn Starflare: SL is for us a wonderful virtual world. [12:14] Fawn Starflare: Now this can and does mean many things. Some see SL as a world apart, cut off from the "First World". [12:14] Fawn Starflare: The laws of nature need not apply, nor social conventions, nor any of the things upon which our first life is built. [12:15] Fawn Starflare: Now this has an impact to BDSM.
You know, that description is a lot like creating
a bonsai. Pruning, staking, tying off, directing it's growth. The
result is not a doormat, but a slave who evolves to be exactly what I
desire, a living individual whose every desire, hope, and action is in
service to me and anticipation of my needs, but still an individual with
her own mind, personality, and soul.
[12:12] Fawn Starflare: As usual I will start with some remarks and then open the topic for general discussion.
[12:14] Mermaid Stormcrow listens
[12:14] Fawn Starflare: The topic of today's discussion was sparked by a beautiful quote sent to me sunday evening, by our own elisandra.
[12:15] Fawn Starflare: I shares it with toy and others and a short discussion ensued.
[12:15] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) nods
[12:15] Fawn Starflare: You can see that on the placard to my left in front of the fireplace.
[12:16] Fawn Starflare: The text in the placard is on a notecard. Just touch the placard for a copy of the card.
[12:16] Fawn Starflare: I will give you all a few minutes to read the the card.
[12:16] Bonsai Analogy owned by Fawn Starflare. gave you 'Bonsai analogy of BDSM'
at 12 noon SLT on the 23rd April 2014, Tessa and Chrisa got married.
Ellen, Bythe, Margaux, Faraday, Akala, Shaia and Myself were witnesses.
This is an edited transcript: ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): hello angel :) San Mauvaise: ok Tessa and Chrisa ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer): hello love San Mauvaise: facing each other San Mauvaise: Friends, Cellar Members, Supporters... We have come together to witness and bless the joining together of Tessa and Chrisa in marriage. The union of these two people is for their mutual joy and support; for the help and comfort they can give one another, whether things are easy for them or not in their coming lives. Therefore marriage is not to be entered into lightly, but carefully, deliberately, and seriously. Into this union Tessa Romanov and Chrisa Zilfer now come to be joined. ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov) grins from ear to ear San Mauvaise: If any of you can know good reason why they may not lawfully be married, for ever hold your peace. ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov) looks around San Mauvaise glares at the audience ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer) grins San Mauvaise: then relaxes and smiles San Mauvaise: ok now the vows San Mauvaise: Tessa? Margaux Fall (margaux6) holds Bythes hand in hers ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): yes Miss will you have Chrisa to be your wife; to live together in the covenant of marriage? Will you love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health; and be faithful to her in Second Life as long as you both shall live? ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): i will San Mauvaise: Chrisa? will you have Tessa to be your wife; to live together in the covenant of marriage? Will you love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health; and be faithful to her in Second Life as long as you both shall live? ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer): absolutely positively Miss San San Mauvaise: All of you watching... San Mauvaise: will you do all in your power to help and support these two persons in their marriage? Bythe Fall: I will Ellen Cordeaux: Absolutely. ㋡ San Mauvaise looks at the audience Margaux Fall (margaux6): I will too shaia Impfondo: as will I San Mauvaise: OK Tessa, do you have a personal declaration to make? Akala Tanara (slyan.alena): I will do as well as I can. ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): yes Miss San Mauvaise: do it now ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer) smiles...thank you friends chrisa, i will be your wife to care and comfort you and love you to the best i am able you are my beloved i never thought i would meet someone like you you are a grace to me, a gift, my sweet precious angel i will happily share my life with you, if you will have me :) San Mauvaise: Chrisa? do you have a personal declaration? ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer): big breath... yes Miss San Mauvaise: ok make it now ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer): I, chrisa, take you,ღ Ţєşşa ღ To be my partner in marriage and in life To love you and honor you To serve you To stand by you and protect you I promise to always listen to you To encourage and support you To be loyal and faithful to you I promise to believe in you Even when you doubt yourself To be the reflection Of your best self Because you are my very best thing I promise to be your loving wife From this moment through all of my Second Life San Mauvaise: Dear friends here.... Let noone here do anything that would part these two, but rather surround them with your love, help and support! San Mauvaise shouts: I declare Tessa and Chrisa wed! Margaux Fall (margaux6) cheers and claps her hands San Mauvaise whispers: You may now kiss the bride.
ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer): hooray!!! woot woot Ellen Cordeaux: *•.¸'*•.¸ ♥ ¸.•*´¸.•* Ellen Cordeaux: •*♥`•*** APPLAUSE ***•`♥*• Ellen Cordeaux: ¸.•*¸.•*´ ♥ `*•.¸`*•.¸ San Mauvaise applaudes happily Margaux Fall (margaux6): Wooooot ღ Chrisa Romanov ღ (chrisa.zifer): bout time...rolls my eyes Faraday ĂгgÓus (faraday.claremont) cheers and claps, hoots and hollars, if you look closely you would see her eyes watering.
Discussion on the responsibilities inherent in being a Mistress. Guides for Domme, switch, and sub. Lead by Miss Fawn.
“… the values we adopt will be the ones the next generation will live by. I do not know if anyone can decide for you. But no one can relieve you of the responsibility for what you say, in whatever form. And the better you are at it, the more beautiful or powerful your voice, the greater burden upon you to use it with wisdom and a great deal of care.”
“The greatest power sometimes comes in not doing a thing. It is so easy to use a skill simply because you have it, and not look two … three steps ahead to what it will cause. People listen to you, Miss ---. You can move our emotions and make us reconsider all kinds of beliefs. That is very clever. It is not always wise ….”
[18:00] Melody (j3nny.fanshaw): fawn yesterday mentioned a lot of things that today i would like to into more detail about
[18:00] Fey nickers.
[18:01] Tinkerbell (fey.savira) slips a sneaky little nose crinkle in comfermation
[18:01] Melody (j3nny.fanshaw): hailey here is a mute pony not able to utter a single word it's a powerful way to control them
[18:02] Pony lhawk22 stomps once!
[18:02] Melody (j3nny.fanshaw): she is bound exposed and needs to draw attention to that fact even more by communicating only with its body
[18:03] Hailey (lhawk22) nibbles and wraps her tongue around her pony bit
[18:03] Melody (j3nny.fanshaw): not a thing for all ponies to do but it is one method for helping them find their place in this role
[13:04] Fawn Starflare: Ok, Wanda wants to do a bit of pony play. so let me end this part with one last thought. [13:04] Kayla (gemini48.royce) shivers at the words "pony play" [13:04] Wanda Goodnight: :blushes and thought it might be useful to show some people here what Pony Play is like [13:14] Wanda Goodnight gets carefully up on her feet, not having her arms to balance and wearing new pony boots. [13:15] Fawn Starflare: Wanda, please come forward. [13:15] Wanda Goodnight takes a few cautious steps into the middle of the room, then turns to look at Miss Fawn for guidance. [13:15] Fawn Starflare: You look lovely. [13:15] ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): nice saddle [13:16] Wanda Goodnight blushes a little at the attention, smiling shyly arround the bit at the compliments. [13:16] Fawn Starflare: One of the infinite ways to dress a pony.
[12:17] Mermaid Stormcrow: thank you Fawn for being here today [12:17] Myya (myya.eldrich) moves behind the chair and gently starts to massage Miss Fawn's shoulders [12:17] Fawn Starflare: It's a pleasure. [12:17] ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): well Miss Fawn gets set up, in the way of announcements: 1) we have rental spots both ground and skybox [12:17] Fawn Starflare: I'd like for my series of demos/discussions to be more like intimate conversations. [12:17] ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): 2) Miss Mer is doing a History book project, so click on the cage for notecard to contribute :) [12:18] Fawn Starflare: I will usually come with some idea to start things off, but after that almost anything goes so long as there is no chaos. [12:19] Fawn Starflare: So feel free to ask questions. [12:19] ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): welcome to the demo sasha and zaira [12:19] ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): have a seat :) [12:19] Sasha Kristan: thank you [12:19] Wanda Goodnight (gagged): Even if we're gagged? [12:19] Fawn Starflare: My intent is help you all find greater self confidence as you roleplay, help you expand the possibilities, and demonstrate stuff we talk about. [12:20] Fawn Starflare: Well ((ooc)) and emotes would be valid, wanda [12:21] A-Toy-Dragon squirms uncomfortably [12:21] Fawn Starflare: What I want to tell you is that I have been out of the closet and participating publicly in RL and on networks since late 1991. [12:22] Fawn Starflare: Despite my experience, I constantly feel like, "compare to [that domme] I'm a wimp" or "I just don't know what to do or say."
First... So what is this D/s thing anyway?
the definition mousey gave was... a set of activities, whether sexual or no, that involve the exchanging of power between two consenting people.
Second... How to succeed in finding a Mistress/subbie (without really trying)
Third... Released! How to cope with a breakup
Discussion Session 18/3/2014
[14:10] Mermaid Stormcrow: Mouse!
[14:11] Kara Draconis (karalieva): welcome back, Mouse
[14:11] chrisa (chrisa.zifer): hooray...hiya mouse
[14:11] ҠѦŶ ℝίԌԌℒℰS (kaykeffie.foxclaw): Welcome Back !!!!!
[14:11] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): hello everyone
[14:11] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): im still on my mobile but ill try and get this started
[14:12] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): I feel guilty for not being able to be on my pc earlier
[14:12] Mermaid Stormcrow: you're here now, mouse...
[14:12] Mermaid Stormcrow: that's what matters. ;)
[14:12] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): so without further ado
[14:13] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): please welcome to
[14:13] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): The Hitchhikers' Guide to D/s
[14:14] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): and like the book, let's start with....
[14:14] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): Don't Panic.
[14:15] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): D/s is an exciting, explorative life style.
[14:20] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): in it one is able to explore ones kinks and dispositions in a controlled (relatively) environment
[14:21] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): here we will cover three branches
[14:21] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): or we'll try to
[14:22] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): first... So what is this D/s thing anyway?
[14:22] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): Second... How to succeed in finding a Mistress (without really trying)
[14:22] ღ Ţєşşa ღ (tessaromanov): ooo
[14:23] Petina (tina987.vaniva): harpoons
[14:23] Tara Leafy Love (tarabk.calamity): The harder you try, the less chance of success is my experience
[14:23] Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): Third... Released! How to cope with a breakup
"The Cellar" is an women-only D/s club in the virtual world, Second Life. It is a meeting place for women interested in quality and healthy D/s relationships or simply women who like intelligent company in a friendly environment.
If you have suggestions for the Cellar, or for this blog, or announcements (weddings, collarings, etc), please send in an inworld notecard or IM to me, San Mauvaise.