Tuesday, March 21, 2017

St Paddy's Day 2017 Dance

Bunch of fun with tunes about luck and ladies :)

Saturday, October 29, 2016

Naked Loop

Miss Byndeme in a bind - 2016

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

Our DJ

Ekaterina is our awesome DJ!
Ekaterina graciously shares her time with us month after month. You may not know that she is asked to perform as a DJ for the SL Anniversary event each year... she's that good :) She is also Miss Fawn's subbie.

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Fun at the Cellar

Brewing Rhonda Bourbon May 2016

Part II

Ms Mewls joins the Staff

Dances 2015-2016

Spring Fling May 2016

Beach Party 2015 - those bikinis fall off easily

Valentines 80s Style - Feb 2015

Fantasy dance - May 2015

Thursday, October 22, 2015

Family ala becky Highness 7 Oct 2015

[11:58] Jenna (noamuthquortek): Safe to assume it's open to the public?
[11:59] sadiziah: twirls my hair round my finger
[11:59] Becky S. Rexie (becky.koolhoven): oh yes
[11:59] Becky S. Rexie (becky.koolhoven): if you think they can handle it
[12:00] Jenna (noamuthquortek): I know how to safeword if it's too much for me.l
[12:02] Becky S. Rexie (becky.koolhoven): welcome everyone to the 124th discussion entitled, Becky
[12:02] Becky S. Rexie (becky.koolhoven): nice to have you here in so big numbers
[12:04] Becky S. Rexie (becky.koolhoven): first topic is panties and how some love to fill them.... nah! seriously....
[12:04] Becky S. Rexie (becky.koolhoven): the topic today will be, family, but more how to make it grow

Discipline vs Punishment 4 Oct 2015 Miss Fawn discussion

[2015/10/03 12:14]  Fawn Starflare: Greetings, and thank you for coming.

[2015/10/03 12:29]  Fawn Starflare: I think, as it is on my mind, we will talk about discipline and punishment.
[2015/10/03 12:29]  Fawn Starflare: some of you saw the bundle of stinging nettle I was holding when you came.
[2015/10/03 12:31]  Fawn Starflare: However, first, I made some changes to my profile last night.
[2015/10/03 12:34]  Fawn Starflare settles herself in the chair.
[2015/10/03 12:35]  Fawn Starflare: are we all ready to proceed.
[2015/10/03 12:35]  Ana Topaz (anathae.bogart): yes Miss
[2015/10/03 12:35]  Ekaterina Urstein (arsanerit): nods
[2015/10/03 12:35]  gwen (sapphicfancy): yes Miss
[2015/10/03 12:37]  Fawn Starflare: The point I am making here is the difference between training and play.

Fawn's family discussion 10/10/2015

[2015/10/10 12:09]  Fawn Starflare: Ok, ladies and girls, it is definitely nice to see you all here.  I want these to be group chats, but everyone is so quiet at the beginning I tend to lecture.  The way to stop it is to ask questions, or make a statement.  This will work very well as I will be speaking about why I believe I have a successful family. So it's my experience and it WILL differ from yours.
[2015/10/10 12:11]  Fawn Starflare: One thing my girls and I have discussed over the week is how things look different from inside and outside the family.  We have what appears to be very strict ownership, control, and discipline.  However, it functions because we each give to the others what they desire.  My girls do not want control so I make choices for them. They want to be kept on leash, and there is nothing I love more.  Walking around with my three or four girls on leash is a trip.  And If I take them to a restaurant and keep them bound and hand feed them in public, they love it as much as I do.  But it works because they turn over control and generally do not try to wrest it back.  If they do, well there will be a struggle of will.  I will come out on top and there will be "punishments" but we've all had fun.  In a way, from the inside, it does not really look so much like BDSM or as the middle two letters indicate, D/s.

Monday, September 28, 2015

Objectification - Miss Fawn discussion 26 Sept 2015

[2015/09/26 11:57]  gwen: here comes Miss Fawn !  Hello Miss
[2015/09/26 11:57]  gwen smiles warmly
[2015/09/26 11:57]  Ruby: good evening Ms Starflare
[2015/09/26 12:05]  Fawn Starflare: Yes, I sort of had a topic in mind last night, so I agreed to do the discussion.
[2015/09/26 12:05]  Fawn Starflare: And finally, ruby, It is nice to meet you as well. Are you new to the Cellar?
[2015/09/26 12:06]  Ruby: i have been coming sporadically, Miss Fawn. Mouse recommended that i should come.
[2015/09/26 12:07]  Fawn Starflare: Oh nice! mousie is a good friend and sub.
[2015/09/26 12:07]  Fawn Starflare: San is very lucky to own her
[2015/09/26 12:08]  Fawn Starflare: Oh, and here, is ada. One of Miss Denise's girls, though often on my leash holder.
[2015/09/26 12:09]  Fawn Starflare: Sextoy, the one with only mouth, pussy, ass, and tits exposed is the toy I mentioned in my announcement.
[2015/09/26 12:09]  Fawn Starflare: sextoy, as you need to leave almost immediately, would you explain what objectification has come to mean to you.  When I found you in this room you were not yet a sextoy.
2015/09/26 12:11]  A-Toy sextoy: It is something that goes way back. It was a long time before 'it' became Goddess' property put into this kind of outfit.  But Goddess has refined it and enhanced it's role.

Sunday, September 20, 2015

The D/s Family- Discussion 9/19/15

[2015/09/19 11:55]  Fawn Starflare: ¸„.-·~¹°”ˆ˜¨ I'll bet you'd love to be dominated, wouldn't you? ¨˜ˆ”°¹~·-.„¸
[2015/09/19 12:05]  Fawn Starflare: Everyone, I am almost ready to start
[2015/09/19 12:05]  Fawn Starflare: I have just been having RL and SL nerve problems.
[2015/09/19 12:05]  Fawn Starflare: I think I am calmed down.
[2015/09/19 12:06]  Fawn Starflare: As usual my toys have absorb the brunt of my upset, enabling me to move forward.
[2015/09/19 12:07]  Fawn Starflare: I hate being like that, but we have achieve a level of coherence as a family, that everyone knows their roles and pulls their weight.

Wednesday, July 1, 2015

New Submissive Training week 3

Week 3: Collars, PE and TPE

1) What is PE and TPE? When do they apply?
2) Protective Collar
3) Training/trial/Consideration Collar
4) Full Collar
            a) What is the message?
            b) What are the responsibilities?
            c) Ownership and knowing your place

New Submissive Training week 2

[17:04]   ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): this is the agenda: Week 2: Safety and relationship building
 1) Safety in communication (what not to share)
 2) Red flags; Are they who they say they are?
 3) SSC, RACK and Safe words
 4) Relationship building
    a) Progress using Communication and Time
    b) Building a Foundation of Trust and Honor
    c) Behaviors of an adult in an adult relationship

New Submissive Training Week 1

(photo from a 2014 discussion)

Submissive Training June 2015

Week 1: Introduction
    1)  Welcome to Cellar, Sim Rules, Purpose of submissive class
    2)  Self Exploration
            a) Core values and alignment
            b) Personal likes/dislikes/fears/limits
            c) Communication with self and others
    3)  What is a submissive/slave heart? What is a submissive/slave?
            a) Common misconceptions
            b) Truth of service NOT stereotype
    4) The other
            a) Safety
            b) Getting to know You

Sunday, March 22, 2015

Layle - Rhonda Wedding Mar-21-2015

[16:06]   ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): shhhhhhh, the ceremony is ready to start, hide all alcohol and stop all betting
[16:07]  Layle Lebed: Thank you Tessa
[16:07]   ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): ***** APPPPPPPLLLLAAAUUUSSSSEEEEEEE***********

Friday, March 6, 2015

Submissive Bill of Rights

[12:03:38] Fawn Starflare: Welcome all. I am going to start the transcript right now.
[12:03:41] Anne Marques (ladyanamarques): I require a shrubbery first :p
[12:03:58] Fawn Starflare: Welcome to my series of group chats.
[12:04:13] Yoko Nagai Love (yokonagai): that sounds fun
[12:04:40] Fawn Starflare: They have been erratic because of heath issues. But my support network of care givers is getting stronger and so am I.
[12:04:53] Yoko Nagai Love (yokonagai): I hope you get well soon
[12:05:07] Fawn Starflare: So I am praying I can resume a regular weekly or bi-weekly series of chats once again.
[12:05:54] Yoko Nagai Love (yokonagai): good luck to you
[12:05:54] Fawn Starflare: Today I have some thoughts generated from Lexi's blog post on submissive's rights.

Thursday, January 15, 2015

Topping from the Bottom - Miss Fawn Jan 15, 2015

Today's topic are some of the subtle ways subs top from the bottom that are often not recognized as such. The Domme must be alert and subs clue into them selves. These things are not universally bad, but when understood can be used to make things more interesting and fun.

[12:01:17]  AdaVenomiss: welcome Miss Fawn, Toy!
[12:01:18]  Ellen Cordeaux: Ladies. *smiles and waves at all
[12:01:36]  Sara (lilgirlsara.audeburgh): Hello Miss Ellen
[12:02:43]  Ellen Cordeaux: Happy New year to you all (kind of late)
[12:03:42]  Fawn Starflare: Yes, well happy year to all of you, and it's wonderful to see so many of you here.
[12:05:51]  Nora Ivylord: I'm here. Maybe I'll get some tips for topping from the bottom. :)
[12:06:39]  Fawn Starflare flicks an imaginary whip at nora.

Saturday, November 29, 2014

Our very own Tori graduates from SL Coast Guard Academy

Tori Graduation from SL Coast Guard Academy
[12:35]  bruckner (bruckner.dreddmor): SR Tori Petlyakov please join us on the deck
[12:35]  bruckner (bruckner.dreddmor): welcome to the deck
[12:35]  Tori Petlyakov: SEMPER PARATUS
[12:35]  bruckner (bruckner.dreddmor): SEMPER PARATUS

Friday, November 7, 2014

Expectations - Miss Fawn 11-7-2014

[12:13:49] Fawn Starflare: When I first though of this pair of discussions a few weeks back, the inspiration was the many many different expectations we have of each other.
[12:14:37] Fawn Starflare: While I would be hard pressed to come up with definitions for top and bottom, or Domme and sub, those who have hung around the lifestyle long enough sense there is a difference.
[12:15:45] Fawn Starflare: Not all so called dom/me roles are about dominance. At least not in some traditional sense as an owner of slaves in ancient Rome or even in some parts of the modern Arab world or the antebellum American South.
[12:16:56] Fawn Starflare: And the same things goes for those we generically call subs. But some like to be kidnapped, others to be raped, and others pain. And none of those are necessarily submissive.
[12:17:46] Fawn Starflare: And then there are the truly submissive roles, servants, maids, sex toy, dolls, and all the rest. And brats, and those that love to be subdued before submitting.
[12:18:22] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles
[12:18:36] Fawn Starflare: So let's go around the room. Let's see what different dommes expect from subs, three or four attributes, and what subs expect of themselves, what they want to give and what they want in return.

Monday, November 3, 2014

Types of Kneels - Mouse 11-1-2014

[12:11]  Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): i offered to teach brit the meanings behind the kneels Miss Carley
[12:11]  Carley Noonan pulls Britt close and kisses Britt
[12:11]  Carley Noonan: Oh mouse thank you
[12:11]  Carley Noonan: we are trying to get her edumacated
[12:12]  Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): may i take the center for a moment please
[12:12]   ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): fine by me mousey-love
[12:12]  Mermaid Stormcrow: please do, mouse.
[12:13]  Carley Noonan: of course mouse
[12:13]  Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): this little workshop is called "On your knees"
[12:13]   ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): oo

What makes a D/s relationship work? Miss Tenshi 10-17-2014

[15:10] Tenshi Love: Yesterday I spoke a bit about power exchange. Today, I'll speak about the topic that interests me the most
[15:10] Tenshi Love: Namely: what makes a D/s relationship work?
[15:11] Feralangel Tolsen raises her hand
[15:12] Tenshi Love: I'll open the floor for initial ideas, then I'll share what I think.
[15:13] Feralangel Tolsen: Ok. Well.. I think the ingredients are different for everyone. I think in general compatibility is hugs. That means compatibility of kinks and also style. What I mean by smiles is for instance, some subs need more affection. Like me.
[15:13] Akala Tanara: Dedication, trust and communication I would say make it work.
[15:14] Feralangel Tolsen: honest communication even when it is not easy to say or discuss.. especially then
[15:14] Kite Homewood: ...dedication, too.
[15:15] Carley Noonan: patience
[15:15] Carley Noonan: love
[15:15] Tenshi Love:  You all have begun to scratch the surface here. This topic is plenty more profound than it seems.
[15:15] Carley Noonan: and respect
[15:15]  ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ: i go with respect too
[15:16] Feralangel Tolsen: ya. I would say respect for each party as a human being that is not predicated on their role.

TPE - Miss Tenshi 10-16-2014

[18:18]  Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): there is transfer of power from the top to the bottom. Such a transfer can happen in three ways.
[18:19]  Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): Power over is the first type of power transfer: The will of the dominant is imposed on the submissive.
[18:20]  Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): It's classic, but i's not good on the long run, because there is no space for the submissive to express herself.
[18:21]  Tenshi Love (eiko.zeffirelli): Power under is the second type of power exchange: everything is negotiated from the submissive

Traits of a domme with Miss Fawn 10-23-2014

Miss Fawn discussion - traits of a domme
[13:00]  Fawn Starflare: What I'd like to do is have each of you think about dommes and what a Domme is to you. Then pick the three most important attributes, skills, attitudes, presentations, etc. Before we start to respond to each other I would like you all to to tell us your three things. After that we can discuss similarities and differences in the lists. I wonder if Dommes, subs, and switches all define a Domme the same way.
[13:00]  Caprice (becky.koolhoven) nods at Miss Fawn
[13:01]  Fawn Starflare: It's not about how you met or how long a trial period.
[13:01]  Fawn Starflare: It's about both domme and sub being willing to truly know the other and to commit to finding a middle road.
[13:02]  Fawn Starflare: Even in TPE, there is give and take.
[13:02]  Fawn Starflare: So lets try this go around the room and each woman say what Domme means to her.

TPE - Collaring Discussion 10-23-2014

TPE - Collaring
[12:16] Mermaid Stormcrow: so let's start the discussion
[12:16] Mermaid Stormcrow: This is Fawn's topic
[12:16] Mermaid Stormcrow: For the next two weeks we will be discussing dominant and submissive roles.. The goal is to explore our expectations of ourselves and our partners as we fulfill these roles. There is no one comprehensive set of skills and behaviors that define either role. As people describe their desires and needs we will see that roles are fluid and evolve to satisfy both partners. Even for TPE the Domme/sub relationship is much more a collaboration that it might seem.
[12:17] Mermaid Stormcrow: This week is focusing on Dommes. Next week will be subs.
[12:17] Mermaid Stormcrow: To the dommes in the room, when you read this topic, what comes to mind?
[12:19] Carla (cyberspy): Which part, the TPE?
[12:19] Mermaid Stormcrow: When I read this topic, I think of how much I've learned since starting as a domme; not that long ago.
[12:20] Mermaid Stormcrow: What does TPE mean Carla?

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Mermaid Stormcrow & Gwendolyn Sweetwater Are Wed Oct. 4, 2014

[17:02]  Mermaid Stormcrow: ok, this is it.
[17:03]  Mermaid Stormcrow shakes out my dress
[17:03]  Lea Pet (leatherme): you look absolutely heavenly Mer
[17:03]  Mermaid Stormcrow blushes and laughs at the comments
[17:04]  Mermaid Stormcrow stands under the arch and looks at her friends and family

Cellar Staff Meeting Oct 4, 2014

Summary - topics:
1) the value of the Cellar
2) the stability of sims for renting
3) Roles and powers
4) Lag
[11:02]  San Mauvaise: I do not have a particular agenda for today, but would firstly like to hear other's opinions of what they think about the state of the Cellar and maybe its future
[11:03]  San Mauvaise: anyone want to start?

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Dressing your subbie 14 Aug 2014

[12:06:28] Fawn Starflare: Thank you all for showing your support of our wonderful group and club by coming down.
[12:07:36] Fawn Starflare: By now you know that after some opening remarks I sit back and just keep the conversation going. Today's topic provides lots for each of you to contribute.
[12:09:12] Fawn Starflare: My first notion of this talk came about a week ago. A woman came in in silks, black lace T&T belt, and hair gelled to look like there was a stiff breeze.
[12:09:42] Mermaid Stormcrow quietly walks into the discussion and sits down
[12:09:59] Fawn Starflare: She was a vision of loveliness and her manners matched, and just by looking at her you knew her Mistress loved her very much to guide or impose that presentation.
[12:12:13] Fawn Starflare:  The thing is as we look around we have all dressed or been dressed not only to be pleasing to the eye but for other purposes as well.
[12:12:48] Brianne Erin: to please ones self or others
[12:13:13] Mermaid Stormcrow nods in agreement
[12:13:14] Fawn Starflare: An curious thing about this as that many of the decisions that go into creating this image or not made consciously.

Cognitive Dissonance in BDSM 07 August 2014

[11:46:50] Linda Doune: Mistress....
[11:46:52] Linda Doune: and faery
[11:47:01] Fawn Starflare: It's a way of making your world feel ordered, safe, and secure.
[11:47:14] Linda Doune: it took a while to "come out" as my true spirit
[11:47:28] Linda Doune: coming out... to bdsm places... as a pure fairy
[11:47:32] Linda Doune: is....
[11:47:33] Linda Doune: well
[11:47:46] Linda Doune: this is the first time I've come here like this
[11:47:53] Linda Doune: but I can not hide my true desire
[11:48:04] Fawn Starflare: Congratulations, linda.
[11:48:12] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles
[11:48:30] Linda Doune: in the faery world..... bdsm is so anathemic to the lifestyle.. it is totally forbidden
[11:48:38] Linda Doune: it is seen as not loving
[11:48:51] Linda Doune: but it is me
[11:48:59] Linda Doune: as well as seeing a girl on her knees.. is me
[11:49:43] Linda Doune: I am still a member here
[11:49:54] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) remembers reading "Bondage Fairies" comic and giggles
[11:50:22] Fawn Starflare: If you are comfortable with it, lets make this part of the description. Your feelings are so much like my own that the dissonant couplet is different.
[11:50:27] Linda Doune: at least when I am over there
[11:50:40] Linda Doune: I need to hide my desire to take my wife and make her kneel
[11:50:51] Linda Doune: but I do that when I am not physically .. ehehe.. here
[11:51:38] Linda Doune: I was dominant outwardly for ages
[11:51:47] Linda Doune: years even... you have known me for years, Fawn
[11:52:02] Linda Doune: inside me was.. this...
[11:52:05] Linda Doune: and it won out
[11:52:22] Fawn Starflare: I think it's great.
[11:53:05] Fawn Starflare: Personally I have no issue with dominant faeries, however I understand the conflict within your community.
[11:53:21] Linda Doune: my community... dissolved on me
[11:53:32] Fawn Starflare: It's nice to see you -- OUT -- happy and comfortable with yourself.
[11:53:41] Linda Doune: that gave me the opportunity to explore and expound ... with my gentler inside
[11:53:55] Linda Doune: clubs I have been with for years... dissolved.. and shocked me
[11:55:25] Linda Doune: Bdsm has been part of my life here since I came on 5 yrs ago
[11:55:37] Linda Doune: so... you can say this is a huge shift ㋡
[12:13:22] Fawn Starflare: ok ladies. its time to get this discussion going.
[12:17:21] Fawn Starflare: so the topic of discussion today is cognitive dissonance.

Sunday, August 3, 2014


of the New Lower Dungeon
of the Cellar Sunday Dances with DJLexi 3-5pm

Thursday, July 31, 2014

dressing a sub's head...

[12:15:51] Fawn Starflare: I've been thinking a lot about gags and sensory deprivation, removal of identity and a bunch or related issues that come along with dressing a sub's head.
[12:16:17] Fawn Starflare: Blind folds, hoods, harnesses, gags, blinkers, and the like.
[12:17:41] Fawn Starflare: For me this all starts with an oral fixation. As a sub it was my desire to always have something in my mouth. A gag of any king, part of my Mistress, part of someone designated by my Mistress.

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Miss San & Ziggy

Ziggy returneth!!
And i was very excited, so Miss San let me post some pictures.
If any of you have great big events like prodigal daughters or weddings, please send me your pictures to post and any pertinent poop :)

Thursday, July 3, 2014

The Vagina Monologues with Miss Fawn July 3

[12:09]  Fawn Starflare takes a sip of water from the table beside her, then taps a spoon on it gently to get people's attention
[12:10]  Fawn Starflare: Tuesday night I finally gave myself the joy of watching “The Vagina Monologues,” Written and performed by Eve Ensler. In preparation for our discussion I looked her up in the Wikipedia. She's an interesting woman and hope at least some of you will look her up after our discussion. If you have about 90 minutes and want an amazing experience, watch “The Vagina Monologues.” Amazon has recently acquired distribution rights to a lot of HBO shows, many of them, including the “Monologues,” of is available “free” to Amazon Prime members, all others pay cash.

Monday, June 23, 2014

Sensual Domming: the SL/RL Connection - Miss Ash 06222014

[2014/06/22 11:10]  Ash (Ash Yheng): So basically, although this discussion started off in my mind purely about Sensual Domming as a method ...
[2014/06/22 11:10]  Ash (Ash Yheng): ... it quickly turned into one that was about how connected subs are between RL and SL.
[2014/06/22 11:10]  Ash (Ash Yheng): And this is a tricky area. Some people get uncomfortable about that subject, because they think of it as being "too real", or get worried about people stalking them ...
[2014/06/22 11:11]  Molly Domenici: Part of SL is having that separation from RL
[2014/06/22 11:11]  Ash (Ash Yheng): ... but it doesn't have to be that way. To me there is always going to be -some- sort of carry over into the RL of the sub if we're talking about a real D/s experience, at least in terms of mood.
[2014/06/22 11:11]  Ash (Ash Yheng) nods at molly.
[2014/06/22 11:11]  Ash (Ash Yheng): Well, people experience it all very differently.

Thursday, June 19, 2014

"Mother, may I?" Miss Fawn discussion 06192014

[12:10:04] Fawn Starflare: It was Carla who indirectly suggested this topic about 8 days ago.
[12:10:23] Carla (cyberspy): haha, that is an understatement.
[12:11:04] Fawn Starflare: Carla what complaining about the ways and timings of people wanting to use her girls and she said, "Have you discussed that yet."
[12:11:22] Fawn Starflare: So here we are
[12:11:32] Sugar Baby (bridgette.huntress): oh ok
[12:12:53] Fawn Starflare: Also Carla and had a minor upset of her girl adonna participating in the forniphilia demonstration. So issues of etiquette were definitely in the air.
[12:13:20] Fawn Starflare: And Lexi's blog post that week also addresses similar ISSUES.
[12:14:56] Fawn Starflare: As I see it there are very few universal rules of etiquette in the BDSM world. A lot of behaviors that might be unacceptable in everyday life are often acceptable here.
[12:15:37] Fawn Starflare: Even so, dominants are very possessive of their subs, even when the sub is allowed to roam about to play.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Sub-space & Sub drop - Miss Ash Yheng June 15, 2014

[11:05]  Ash (ash.yheng): Looking around the room I suspect that most of you are at least somewhat versed in the subject ...
[11:06]  Toni Westland: sorry I did not pick up on the subject.
[11:06]  Ash (ash.yheng): ... but I'd like to go over some basics, as well as some SL-specific comments on the subject of "subspace and subdrop" for the benefit of people that are new to the scene, or used to thinking in RL context.
[11:07]  Mouse Love Lykin (minnigirl): oh, an interesting subject Miss Ash
[11:07]   ღ Ţєşşa Romanov ღ (tessaromanov): truly
[11:07]  Mermaid Stormcrow nods and listens

Dolls - a kink part deux

Dolls -

[09:21:12] Fawn Starflare: Well I see a few Dolls here. Different Varieties. Melody, toy, born, kelly.
[09:21:35] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles
[09:21:36] Melody Cross (melody.runo) nods
[09:22:10] Fawn Starflare: Hello para.
[09:22:22] Mermaid Stormcrow: please come can join us for the discussion
[09:22:23] Para (mstrspara.moraga): Smiles and waves Hello all :)
[09:22:34] MissMarcy Yachvili (mismarcy) is online.
[09:23:01] RF Reverse Stiletto (r lower leg) whispers: A nice comfy heel is placed on Jessicca's shoes, capping the mean spike and rendering it harmless.
[09:23:14] A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) smiles
[09:23:35] Mermaid Stormcrow quietly waves to Miana and jessicca as the discussion starts.
[09:23:54] Fawn Starflare watches maina drag in a securely bound, gagged, and blinded girl.
[09:24:13] Fawn Starflare: Very nice, Miana, and the coloring of the buttocks is perfect.
[09:24:21] (no name) Mstrspara Moraga has turned Mstrspara's key.
[09:24:56] Fawn Starflare: One more Doll added to the collection.
[09:25:02] Miana Siabonne: Hiya Everyone :)
[09:25:27] Fawn Starflare: I think we can see one of the elements of being a doll is the paradoxical freedom that comes with restraint.

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Dolls, a kink

[12:12:18] Fawn Starflare: Oh Silver, we hold a number of discussions each week to keep that place warm and cozy. I lead a discussion , well as of this week, twice a week.
[12:12:29] Fawn Starflare: And today as I said it Dommes and Dolls.
[12:12:52] Fawn Starflare: It's hard to say exactly where and hows the doll fetish came to be.
[12:13:36] Fawn Starflare: My perception of this is that it began with inflatable sex dolls available by mail order or at your local XXX book shop.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Taboo kinks and their expression June 8, 2014

Kinks, led by Alana

[10:58]  [2014/06/08 10:01]  Mermaid Stormcrow: A little reminder that there is a discussion at 11 SLT. Tessa won't be here, I'll do my best to come back and keep track of notes.
[11:03]  Ash (ash.yheng): We should probably start in a couple of minutes. *smiles*
[11:03]  Alana (devastacia.soulstar) nods
[11:03]  Alana (devastacia.soulstar): Just giving people time to arrive
[11:08]  Alana (devastacia.soulstar): Okay, we're gonna go ahead and get started
[11:09]  Ash (ash.yheng): yay .*smiles and awaits for alana*
[11:09]  Alana (devastacia.soulstar): I want to preface this discussion by stating that this is a safe place...everyone's kinks, fetishes, etc are to be respected. If you can't do so in a kind manner, you will be asked to leave.
[11:10]  Alana (devastacia.soulstar): I want everyone here to feel like they can speak about anything they wish without fear of negative judgment.
[11:10]  Mermaid Stormcrow listens and nods
[11:10]  Rae (raelara.ishtari) nods, shifting enough so that she can listen and observe attentively.
[11:11]  Ash (ash.yheng): I think we're all in agreement with that, darling. :)
[11:11]  Alana (devastacia.soulstar): Today we're going to be talking about edge/taboo kinks, in more or less three parts...how you become comfortable participating in them, how you share them with others, and how you deal with the negative reactions of those who don't understand.

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Wednesday Discussion with Miss Fawn 6/4/2014

[12:10]  Fawn Starflare: As you've all seen, today's discussion comes with three lovely demonstrations.
[12:10]  Fawn Starflare: Interestingly enough, all three seem to have been directly inspired by Jeff Gord.
[12:11]  Fawn Starflare: The notion of using women as furniture has been around for a very long time.

Thursday, May 29, 2014

Wednesday Discussion 5/29/2014

Wednesday Discussion 12:00 Noon led by Miss Fawn
"What to do when you know you have done something wrong and have no idea why your Mistress is so angry with you and what you need to do."
[12:07]  Fawn Starflare: Today's topic, well you have only to look at my toy to see what inspired it.
[12:07]  Fawn Starflare: I am sure the lash marks will heal soon.
[12:07]  A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) caresses the welts
[12:07]  Helena Sitri (plueschie): *giggles* if it gets more full here we need more pillows on the floor
[12:08]  Fawn Starflare: It's no secret that though I only Domme now, I am and always have been a switch.
[12:08]  Fawn Starflare: I have been on both sides of this dilemma.
[12:08]  Fawn Starflare: I will illustrate the situation.
[12:08]  Fawn Starflare: Yesterday when I logged in toy was online but AFK.
[12:09]  Fawn Starflare: When she logged in, she was both blind and gagged, and that is something she had to have noticed.
[12:09]  Fawn Starflare: Yes, toy?
[12:10]  Fawn Starflare: I waited for her to return. She is a very good girl most of the time, and she greeted me with a foot kiss and her pledge of submission to me.
[12:10]  Fawn Starflare: However I had not heard something I was expecting and that she would have said in other circumstance when bindings were added or removed :
[12:10]  Fawn Starflare: "thank you"
[12:11]  Fawn Starflare: So I asked, "what have you forgotten to say?"
[12:11]  Fawn Starflare: Now if she had said 'thank you' or 'I don't know', things would have ended there.

Thursday, May 15, 2014

Discussion Wed Noon 5/14/2014

Chats with Miss Fawn
Wednesday, 14  May 2014, noon SLT

Augmented Reality, Totally Independent world, or something in between or other. What's your view of SL and how does it affect the way you do BDSM in SL? Conversely, what you want to do or get out of BDSM in SL probably affects your perception of SL. Regardless, we often do things in SL we couldn't do in RL due to issues of physical safety and other concerns. Though physical safety can be ignored, a bad scene or relationship can do emotional or spiritual harm in a variety of ways. How does one inoculate herself against harm before entering into a scene or relationship?

[12:09]  Fawn Starflare: The topic today was suggested by an 8 year old block entry that tessa pointed out to me.
[12:10]  Fawn Starflare: And while those issues of what should SL have long since been settles, the title suggests something that I think about all the time with connection to the BDSM lifestyle in SL.
[12:11]  Mermaid Stormcrow waits for Miss Fawn to continue.
[12:12]  Fawn Starflare: Now I want to make a disclaimer before I jump right in. The there are at least two different issues which one could spend a lot of time. There are deep philosophical considerations. However they are tangential to what I have in mind and I will cut off discussion that will lead in to philosophical pondering.
[12:12]  Fawn Starflare: I was trying to think how to word that.
[12:13]  Fawn Starflare: SL is for us a wonderful virtual world.
[12:14]  Fawn Starflare: Now this can and does mean many things. Some see SL as a world apart, cut off from the "First World".
[12:14]  Fawn Starflare: The laws of nature need not apply, nor social conventions, nor any of the things upon which our first life is built.
[12:15]  Fawn Starflare: Now this has an impact to BDSM.

Friday, May 2, 2014

Discussion Wed noon 4-30-2014 Grooming subs, definition of slave etc


Fawn Starflare:
You know, that description is a lot like creating a bonsai. Pruning, staking, tying off, directing it's growth. The result is not a doormat, but a slave who evolves to be exactly what I desire, a living individual whose every desire, hope, and action is in service to me and anticipation of my needs, but still an individual with her own mind, personality, and soul.

[12:12]  Fawn Starflare: As usual I will start with some remarks and then open the topic for general discussion.
[12:14]  Mermaid Stormcrow listens
[12:14]  Fawn Starflare: The topic of today's discussion was sparked by a beautiful quote sent to me sunday evening, by our own elisandra.
[12:15]  Fawn Starflare: I shares it with toy and others and a short discussion ensued.
[12:15]  A-Toy-Dragon (dragony.darkfury) nods
[12:15]  Fawn Starflare: You can see that on the placard to my left in front of the fireplace.
[12:16]  Fawn Starflare: The text in the placard is on a notecard. Just touch the placard for a copy of the card.
[12:16]  Fawn Starflare: I will give you all a few minutes to read the the card.

[12:16]  Bonsai Analogy owned by Fawn Starflare. gave you 'Bonsai analogy of BDSM'