Wednesday, October 21, 2009


Following important and insightful posts on the importance of aftercare in BDSM:
I would just like to add my endorsement of these. It takes time as people come back up out of a session, especially if its intense and/or emotional. During this time both tops and bottoms need some time to recover, and perhaps talk to each other about how it went. This is not a chore but is often a lovely period of intimacy and communication. Of course, if something did not work for any of the participants its triply important!